Who not to invite to your wedding and why
A wedding is a once in a life-time event, to celebrate the union of two hearts, so who else to celebrate this joyous moment with if not with your friends, family and relatives. But there is also a limit to the amount of people one can invite because of the space and costs involve. So who is it that you should or should not send your wedding invitations to?
One of the few people that you should not invite is your ex, especially if you have unresolved issues with. Can you imagine how would your other half will feel if they were about to say “I do” and there’s the image of your ex reminding them of your unresolved past. It doesn’t matter if you are good friends with your ex but your soon-to-be spouse will feel unhappy with their presence.
Another person you should not invite is your drunkard of a good friend or relative who makes a whole lot of noise after having a few glasses of wine. Yes, there’s that obligation that you should invite your close relatives and good friends but are you sure you want to invite someone who gets rowdy after ingesting alcohol? Not a good idea unless you want fights breaking out during your wedding.
Last but not least, another type of person that you should not invite is your estranged relative. It has been a whole lot of years since you have last seen this person, but yet the reason of weddings being family affairs is making you debate with yourself. It pretty much boils down to what type of wedding you are having, whether it is an intimate one with only your closest friends and relatives, or is it going to be a huge event where you invite everyone you know. And if it doesn’t bother you to invite someone who is pretty much a stranger to you by now, by all means do.

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April 15th, 2010 at 1:56 am
You made a lot of good points. Thanks for sharing.
May 6th, 2010 at 1:58 am
Great blog post, straight to point. BTW I cant find your RSS Feed.