The Etiquette of Wedding Invitation Wording
While creating your wedding invitations can be fun and exciting, you must not forget that there are some rules to follow when it comes to wedding invitation wording. The wording off a wedding invitation not only conveys important details; it also shows signs of respect. Hence, there are some things to keep in mind when deciding on the wordings.
First of all, the bride and groom should have their names printed in full, so that your guests will be sure of whom you are, among the many people they might know of the same name. The names of the parents of the bride and groom should also be included with the salutation “Mr. and Mrs.” If one’s parents is divorced, put their names on different lines.
Then, the location of the ceremony is also important as it affects the phrase used to describe the invitation. A wedding held at a place of worship would use phrases like, “… request the honor of your presence”; while weddings at locations of non-worship can use phrases like, “… request the pleasure of your company” or “… invite you to celebrate the marriage of…” Different context requires different phrases as worship places represents the belief of the couple and the family, thus the grand phrase; while non-worship places can have a more hospitable, welcoming tone.
Third, be sure to spell out the dates and time, i.e. July the twenty eight, two thousand ten, at eight o’clock in the morning. While it is traditional to do so, spelling out the dates and time can prevent mistype errors where numbers can easily be gotten wrong. This is also important as some people read dates differently from others, such as month-day-year, as compared to day-month-year. Be sure to position this information in the middle where guests can easily find it.
Lastly, when it comes to addressing your guests on the envelope, take note of their relationship status. Married couples can be referred to as “Mr. and Mrs. (couple’s last name)”. Unmarried women who are above age 18 can be called either “Ms.”, or “Miss.” This is followed by their first and last name. Meanwhile, children ages 18 and above should receive their own invitations apart from their parents. Guests with honorable titles can have the titles in exchange of the common salutation.
Wedding invitation wording may be tricky, but they would leave a good impression if you made them well.
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