Did you know that even guests have wedding invitation etiquette to follow? Here are some wedding invitation etiquette guidelines for guests.
To be invited, you would receive wedding invitations. Be sure to inform the couple that you will be attending their wedding. Word-of-mouth is easily forgotten, especially when they have lots of things to take care of for their wedding. Make sure you put your RSVP down in print. Also, make sure you RSVP before the “Reply by” date. There are certain decisions that may be affected by your presence.
You should also not bring a companion with you unless your invitation specifies that you may bring one. If the invitation states “+ Guest”, you may bring along a companion, whether it is your date, a relative, or a child. Do not bring more people than invited. The couple would have to bear the cost for paying for each additional seat. If you have no companion that will be following, also notify the couple. That empty seat can be given to others in case of any last-minute changes.
Also, some wedding invitations have wedding themes where specific dress codes are required. The invitations would usually state that dress code, so be sure to follow it. You would not want to go in pants and suits when everyone is going as cowboys or cowgirls. The couple will be appreciative if you were to go with the flow, so to create their dream wedding.
Apart from that, when you accept an invitation, be sure to give the couple a gift during the reception. Remember, it is a gift for the couple, not just one of them. If they have just moved into a new place together, you may consider getting them something they can both make use of, and might need. On the other hand, if they have been living together for a while now, chances are that they already have what they need. Thus, you might want to consider giving them gift certificates or cash. Cash gifts will also be suitable for those who came to the town just for the wedding, only to fly off later. This way, they do not need to bring extra baggage with them when they return.
Hopefully, following these guidelines will help you become the guest every couple hope for. You would want a perfect guest for your wedding, too.
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Wedding Etiquette for Guests
August 10th, 2010 Elaine Posted in Wedding Etiquette, Wedding Ideas, Wedding Invitations Ideas No Comments »
Deciding Decisions: The Wedding Guest List
August 2nd, 2010 Elaine Posted in Wedding Etiquette, Wedding Ideas, Wedding Planning No Comments »
You’ve got big ideas and a big heart for your wedding. However, when you have a budget, it is not reasonable to invite every single person you know to your wedding. So who should be in that wedding guest list of yours? Note that throughout this article, “you” will be used in place of you and your soon-to-be spouse.
Beginning with the most important people to invite, you would first want to include your immediate family members, consisting of parents and siblings. You can then move up the tree and invite other family members such as grandparents, uncle, aunties, and cousins.
You should also extend your wedding invites to those who mean a lot to your life. These people would be family to you, just without blood relations. Do not forget to invite their partners into the wedding guest list as well, as they you would want the people that matter to you have the people that matter to them, too.
Next, you can consider those whom are people who have played some role in your life that has bring you happiness, and will continue bringing you happiness in the future. They can be your next-door neighbor whom you have always played with as a kid, or your colleagues whom you share cups of tea in the pantry during breaks. Regardless of who they are, it is the good memories that you want to bring along to your wedding.
Although it is not necessary, you can also make people whom have inspired or helped you live to be the person you are now as part of your wedding invites. They could be your teachers whom encouraged you to do better when you failed, a coach who has helped you get back onto your feet when you were down, or even a doctor who saved you from an illness. When you invite them, you can share with your partner that this person got you on the track you are today. Some people also invite business partners, so to strengthen the business relationship.
Although those listed here may seem to be people you should invite, remember to take into account people that may make embarrassing scenes. If you need to invite them, make sure someone is on standby to help control the situations. Nevertheless, have people help you attend to the guests, while you focus on making the wedding a success.

